MY WIFE IS A CHEAT
Some men are very funny oooo. Because they married, their wives should change their sim cards, stop answering calls, stop chatting, stop visiting friends, delete all their social handles etc. You have not started. Any little call or chat, the woman is already cheating on him. Lekwanu anya. Do you think she had no friends before you married her? Do you think you were the only person that wanted to marry her? Do you know how many persons she rejected only to marry you? Biko, no go dey do pass yourself. I am not in anyway saying that there is no cheating, I am only trying to point out some points or behaviours of men that are not wonderful.
Do not search your wife’s messages and chats, they are not the best way to protect your wife and marriage. If you show your wife that you do not suspect her, if you show her that you trust her, 80% of them will show you maximum love and will not cheat on you. Even if the person is cheating, God will help you and expose her one day. But if you continue to show them that you do not trust them, you will see another side of them. Listening to her calls will not stop a cheat from cheating, she will just codify her words and you will never understand those words. A call that does not concern you, avoid making it a case. Love and trust is the best protective measure than being a watch dog. Continue Reading..........
Setting spies to monitor the movement of your wife will just finish your marriage up. You do not even know if those you are setting as spies are jealous of your sweet marriage, they will just help and crumble your marriage. Those men in the beer parlours telling you all sorts of stories about your wife and family are not helping you. Do not rely on them. There are better places that will teach you how to live in peace than how to be the Lord and master of your house in a negative way. Remove your mind from being suspective and you will have peace of mind. There is what is called habit of association, once you start suspecting your wife, many things will follow up to prove you right but they are not real. Na devil dey play that hide and seek for you. Do more of trusting than suspecting and you will have peace of mind and happy family.
You think making sure that she does not go out will make her not to cheat? Some men think that not allowing their wives to go to the market, church, visit friends will make them to be faithful to them. Giving your wife her due freedom will make her to trust you and be faithful to you. Asking her always, where did you go? To see who? To discuss what? Must you go out? Must you visit her or him? Must you go to the place and so on will not solve the problem. Trying using these ones. Honey, what did you get for me from where you went? Did your friend not give you anything to give me? Make sure you get something for your hubby why coming back etc. I feel they help more.
Why changing her sim card? Why deleting her Facebook account? If you take good care of her, she will be the one to notice that her sim is already becoming a problem to her, she will know that her Facebook account is already a problem and will do something about it. Do not make your wife to develop hatred towards you for you will suffer it more. Gịnwa ga ata dị afufu the thing. Encourage her to use the social media appropriately than deleting it. Make her use her contacts very well. Some of those she call are the reason why she is still entertaining your excesses. Some of her friends are the ones advicing her to be patient with you and to understand you, to stay with you and to endure you (of course some are not good friends). Some of them are the ones telling her to buy you those wonderful gifts, some of them are the ones telling her how to talk to you, respect you, care for you etc. Be wise Nnam.
In all, some women are ingrate and I know. No matter how best you try to please them, they will insist on the wrong side, I am coming for you also. Let us all work for a sweet home for that will give us the idea of sweet heaven coming. A home can tell us about hell fire coming or heaven coming, choose wisely. Ụmụ nwanyị, I am coming for you. Thanks and happy weekend.
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