ỤFỌDỤ ỤMỤ NWANYỊ DỊ EGWU
I know they were happy for the last write up but they will not like to take corrections that will come from this one, they will like to defend themselves. Ụfọdụ ụmụ nwanyị dị egwu. So women can be something else. After watching how they treat their families you will begin to wonder if they are created by the devil or still God. In all, some are very wonderful and are the answer to the biblical passage that said he who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favours from the Lord.
I just wonder how some women feel when they watch their husbands after working throughout the day to come home not to meet food because they went for one meeting or the other. I am just wondering how they enjoy telling their husbands that they could not cook because they had meeting and it does not happen once or twice but frequently. If you know that you have a meeting to attend, why not prepare something earlier and keep for the family than using that as an excuse. Even religious meetings should not take the place of your family. Some men spend most of their times in eateries because of this type of situation and from there, they may fall into wrong hands that will take them away from you. Please gaurd your husband jealousy and not allow what you can avoid to take him away from you. Continue Reading................
All these women that are always busy hustling for what they will use to sustain their families leaving their families unsustained entirely, you are already getting it wrong. If your work or business has made you to loose the sense of your family, if you are now counting your work or business before your family, biko, nsogbu dizi. There is trouble already. Any work or business that is against your family which is the root of life is against the will of God and should be watched. Do not work all day and all night to the detriment of your family. Do not allow yourself to be always away from your family because of business trips. They are not healthy to the family. Ihe nile nwere oge. Everything has time, share your time among what you have and it will help you to get to what will help you and your family.
Kedụ reason why a woman should be comparing her ex with her husband in an unhealthy way? Ụmụ nwanyị biko and biko, do not do this for the safety of your home. If you have accepted this man for better for worst, then forget the one that you accepted only for better in your younger age. Most times ndị ex cause serious trouble to families both from ụmụ nwanyị na ụmụ nwoke. Biko, we all should watch the relationship between our exs when we are married. It is not to hate your ex or to break up entirely with him or her in such a way that nothing on earth concerns you and the person but for you to establish a healthy relationship and if you know you cannot, biko, cut it.
So women think that monitoring their husbands is the best way to make them stick to them. Akịkọ na egwu Mike Ejeagha. If you are monitoring a man and making his home a hell fire, he will not be yours. If you are monitoring a man and you are starving him, that will not keep him. If you are monitoring a man and you are so dirty, that will not guarantee you having him. If you are monitoring a man and you do not care about him and for him, you will loose him soon. If you are monitoring a man and you are a nagging wife, he will soon find solace in another place. Ụmụ nwoke, know it that I am not supporting you to be cheating on your wives, I am only trying to make points that will help all of us. You do not have reason to cheat biko. I humbly suggest you stop monitoring him, his calls, messages, social handles, movements etc, channel those energies towards loving him, taking care of him, taking care of his property, always trying to make him happy and so many other positive ways of handling a husband and I assure you, you will have him full time.
All these ụmụ ọgwụgwụ oge that find their models in the social media. You think Nollywood shows you everything about life? That is why you would not try to learn your man but comparing your marriage with that of Mercy Johnson and Ramsey Noah. Biko, your name is Nkeiru and you are married to Ejike and not Ramsey Noah and Mercy Johnson. All these groups in the Facebook that teach sex styles to keep a man and forget about cooking styles, washing styles, caring styles, loving styles, praying styles, talking styles, behaving styles and others are not helping you biko. It is true that bed styles also contribute but are not the ultimate. Seek what is necessary first which that is ezigbo omume and every other thing shall be added onto you. Your family needs God and omume more than sex styles.
My problem is that some men are more wicked than the devil. Their wives will do everything on earth to please them and to keep them but they will always water the effort. Biko, ka igu n’ eri ụma ka ụma n’ eri igu (as the file is reducing the knife while filing so also the knife is reducing the file). As the wife is making effort to better the family, the husband should not be a set back. Ahead ahead we move. Happy Sunday
Dalu Nnam
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