MARRIED BACHELOR.
In philosophy, this topic or title of this write up is a
fallacy (that is crime in philosophy) but I am ready to commit it provided I point
out what I have experienced in this life. Bachelor is a man of age who is yet
to get married. This is just a lay man’s definition of it, but these days,
people are now complicating issues for us.
1.
Fight
over a girl.
2.
Having
many Girls around you (sex).
3.
Single
but Married.
4.
Conclusion:
Any Remedy?
1. FIGHTING OVER A
GIRL: A man who is
single, will woo a girl who is also single not with the intention of marriage
but for hedonism and when he gets her, he will like to privatize her but he
will not marry her. Ọdị mma ọyị mana ọdịghị mma ọlụlụ. When he sees another man
around her, he will like to fight like a wounded lion in other not to lose her
to any other man as if she is his wife. Sometimes men kill themselves because
of a girl whom they know quite alright that they will not marry, none of them
is ready to marry her. It was a life experience in the year 2012 around middle
August when I was spending my holidays at home after my WAEC. Two boys (guys),
who have been friends from childhood were fighting over a particular girl whom
they were aware that they will not marry. The first guy claims that he has been
taking good care of this girl for over three years and now this other guy is
trying to water all his efforts all these years. The second was telling the
first that it is not how far but how well? It is not about spending or taking
care of her for years but it is about the one the girl loves most. And you
should know that ọ bụ a na-emelu nwanyị, ọ na-emelu onye dị ya mma. You may have
spent your whole life taking care of this girl, but have you ever considered
thinking about if the girl loves you. It is a game of those who are wise. At this
juncture the first guy could not take it again, he got annoyed and they started
fighting. When we were trying to separate them, we did not know that one of
them had a hammer in his pocket and he hit one of us with that hammer and he
fainted immediately. One who does not know anything about the issue, only
trying to help got serious injury. After all said and done, they became serious
enemies from then till now. The girl in question is now married with kids to
another man all together and they are still enemies because of her. Continue Reading.....................................