16th Sunday in Ordinary Time Year A. By Tobe Eze

16th Sunday in Ordinary Time Year A.

FIRST READING
Wisdom 12:13, 16—19

SECOND READING
Romans 8:26—27

GOSPEL
Matthew 13:24—43

THEME: GIVE THEM CHANCE.

The last statement of the first reading is, “And you taught your people, by these deeds, that those who are just must be kind; and you gave your children good ground for hope that you would permit repentance for their sins.” It is on this ground with the first parable in the Gospel that I wish to start with a story.

Two girls were living in the same room in the university. One was too promiscuous and the other was too pious. The one that was too pious was seeing her roommate as a candidate for hell fire. She does not for her, hardly does she talks to her. She sees fault in everything she does. The other, whenever she wants to do anything good, she does it for the two. One day the canal one called the pious one to narrate her story of life to her so that she will help her but she said no, that she has nothing to do with someone like you. One who sleeps with any man that passes around her. When they graduated, they went to their various homes. The pious one did not get job immediately. Her father and mother died through fire outbreak. She was left with nothing material to start life and she had three siblings to take care of. To cut the story short. After suffering for years, she succumbed to what almost every man that comes to her rescue tells her. Your body in exchange of help. She succumbed to that and was even worst than his roommate. After many years if experience and every other things, the two roommates met again. That was when she accepted to listen to her roommate. Her roommate told her that was born and brought up in the community of prostitutes. Her mother died as a prostitute. She told her that she was making effort to stop that type of life when they were in school but she did not give her chance to explain herself to her. Continue Reading......................................

1st Sunday of Advent Year B. By Tobe Eze

                                                                     ADVENT
Advent is a season observed in many Christian churches as a time of expectant waiting and preparation for the celebration of the Nativity of Jesus at Christmas. The term is a version of the Latin word meaning "coming". The term "Advent" is also used in Eastern Orthodoxy for the 40-day Nativity Fast, which has practices ...

1st Sunday of Advent Year B.

FIRST READING
Isaiah 63:16b—17, 19b; 64:2—7

SECOND READING
1 Corinthians 1:3—9

GOSPEL
Mark 13:33—37

THEME: THERE IS NO TIME TO WASTE.

One day after my preaching in a gathering, I emphasized much on end of time. One man stood up and asked me. Let me quote him, “Since my great grandfather, my grand father, my father and my own self were born, we have been hearing about end time, end of time, the coming of the son of man and many other ways people qualify it. My question is now, when is that end time coming?” I stood for sometimes and answered the man, Now! He asked, How? I told him. People die everyday, death meet people here and there and we are meant to know that there is no repentance or change of heart in the grave, and we do no when we will die. If that is so, then I asked him back, when are you going to die? He answered me that he does not know. From there i made him to understand that once you don’t know when, how and where you will die, it is good to make every minute or even second of your life your last opportunity. If we regard every minute or second of our lives as our last opportunity, we will do good, obey God's commandments and men’s positive laws. Continue Reading......................

Solemnity of Christ the King Year A. By Tobe Eze

Solemnity of Christ the King Year A.

FIRST READING
Ezekiel 34:11—12, 15—17

SECOND READING
1 Corinthians 15:20—26, 28

GOSPEL
Matthew 25:31—46

THEME: KING WITH DIFFERENCE.

I was one of those who has zero percent in music, singing, dancing, beating, playing and think of anything in music, I know nothing in it. In my first year in my school, I was nobody in music especially our Ikorodo cultural dance. In my second year I made serious effort to upgrade and I was a little bit recognized, finally in my third year I was a star in the area of singing in Ikorodo. In my first and second year, anytime we have anything to perform, I always go on time to get the costume that I will wear for I knew that if I don’t go on time I may miss the chance of performing in that occasion. In my year three when I noticed that without me, the singing department will have problem, pride came over me. I go late, they will start looking for me everywhere and they will keep my cloth for me even when others have none. Why am I telling this story? Just that I am being recognized, I started misbehaving. What of God who is all in all who is yet to misbehave? King that promised to come and serve his subjects and did so. Continue Reading............................................

17th Sunday in Ordinary Time Year A. By Tobe Eze

17th Sunday in Ordinary Time Year A.

FIRST READING
1 Kings 3:5, 7—12

SECOND READING
Romans 8:28—30

GOSPEL

Matthew 13:44—52

THEME: IT TAKES SERIOUS SACRIFICE TO THAT OUR VISION.

I wish to start with this story; UNWISE START LEADS TO A SAD END: Once, there was a mouse that had his hole near a pool in a thick forest. A frog often came out for basking in the sun. Within no time, they became buddies. But the friendship of a frog and mouse is highly undesirable because the frog's home is in water and the mouse on land. One day the frog said to the mouse, "Let’s bind ourselves together with a string so that we may never get separated." The mouse agreed. So, both tied themselves together leg-to-leg. Though on land, it went quite well, but in the pool, it was tragic for the mouse. The frog swam about delightfully in the pool dragging the mouse with him. Soon, the mouse drowned and his body floated on the surface of the pool. A kite hovering in the sky saw the dead mouse it swooped down to carry it off. Up went the frog as well and became the kite's meal. Continue Reading..........................

33rd Sunday in Ordinary Time Year A. By Tobe Eze

33rd Sunday in Ordinary Time Year A.

FIRST READING
Proverbs 31:10—13, 19—20, 30—31

SECOND READING
1 Thessalonians 5:1—6

GOSPEL

Matthew 25:14—30

THEME: WHAT ARE YOU ATTACHED TO? (WHAT ARE YOU MARRING?).

A man (an academician) told his wife and children, for no reason should they disturb him anytime he is in his study except on issues of life. The day he died, he stayed two days before his family could notice that he was dead. Because of the marriage between him and his books, his wife and children could not summon courage to go to him in his study till when they noticed that it was becoming too much and the wife entered and saw him dead on the seat with one of his books in his hands. He was married to his books. Continue Reading.....................

MARRIED BACHELOR. By Tobe Eze

MARRIED BACHELOR.

In philosophy, this topic or title of this write up is a fallacy (that is crime in philosophy) but I am ready to commit it provided I point out what I have experienced in this life. Bachelor is a man of age who is yet to get married. This is just a lay man’s definition of it, but these days, people are now complicating issues for us.

1.      Fight over a girl.

2.      Having many Girls around you (sex).

3.      Single but Married.

4.      Conclusion: Any Remedy?

1. FIGHTING OVER A GIRL: A man who is single, will woo a girl who is also single not with the intention of marriage but for hedonism and when he gets her, he will like to privatize her but he will not marry her. Ọdị mma ọyị mana ọdịghị mma ọlụlụ. When he sees another man around her, he will like to fight like a wounded lion in other not to lose her to any other man as if she is his wife. Sometimes men kill themselves because of a girl whom they know quite alright that they will not marry, none of them is ready to marry her. It was a life experience in the year 2012 around middle August when I was spending my holidays at home after my WAEC. Two boys (guys), who have been friends from childhood were fighting over a particular girl whom they were aware that they will not marry. The first guy claims that he has been taking good care of this girl for over three years and now this other guy is trying to water all his efforts all these years. The second was telling the first that it is not how far but how well? It is not about spending or taking care of her for years but it is about the one the girl loves most. And you should know that ọ bụ a na-emelu nwanyị, ọ na-emelu onye dị ya mma. You may have spent your whole life taking care of this girl, but have you ever considered thinking about if the girl loves you. It is a game of those who are wise. At this juncture the first guy could not take it again, he got annoyed and they started fighting. When we were trying to separate them, we did not know that one of them had a hammer in his pocket and he hit one of us with that hammer and he fainted immediately. One who does not know anything about the issue, only trying to help got serious injury. After all said and done, they became serious enemies from then till now. The girl in question is now married with kids to another man all together and they are still enemies because of her. Continue Reading.....................................

19th Sunday in Ordinary Time Year A By Tobe Eze

19th Sunday in Ordinary Time Year A

FIRST READING
1 Kings 19:9a, 11—13a

SECOND READING
Romans 9:1—5

GOSPEL
Matthew 14:22—33

OUR GOD IS A GENTLE GOD.

I was watching a show on the television, at a point, the minister or pastor or whatever he maybe called told the people that they should pray for God's earthquake to come. He said that if the earthquake does not come, no miracle will take place. Another said that before miracle will happen, the Lord’s hurricane must come and many other instances.

In the first reading, Elijah was waiting for the Lord on the mountain. Many noisy things came but God was not in any of them until the last little voice. God’s miracles and blessings are not necessarily to come through noisy environments. They come also in a very cool place and in a tiny voice. These days’ preachers should so that whether you like it or not you must here it. I went to Ogbete market in Enugu one day and I saw a group of people on awareness rally about a crusade they were organizing and they were sing around the market. You must be born again! You must be born again!

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32nd Sunday in Ordinary Time Year A. By Tobe

32nd Sunday in Ordinary Time Year A.

FIRST READING
Wisdom 6:12—16

SECOND READING
1 Thessalonians 4:13—18

GOSPEL
Matthew 25:1—13

THEME: IT DOES NOT TAKE MUCH.

A famous story about how tortoise tested the wisdom of its children is what I wish to you and introduce this reflection. Tortoise called its three children, it asked the first. How many times will something happen to you and you will learn? The first one answered two times and it told it that the first one is not wise. It asked the second one the same question and it answered once and it told it that the second one is not wise. It asked the last one and it answered, that it will learn from others experience. That it will not happen to him before he will learn. The tortoise congratulated it and told it that it is very wise.

21st Sunday in Ordinary Time Year A. By Tobe Eze

21st Sunday in Ordinary Time Year A.

FIRST READING
Isaiah 22:19—23

SECOND READING
Romans 11:33—36

GOSPEL
Matthew 16:13—20

THEME: POWER TO THE RIGHTEOUS ONE.

In one autonomous community that I know very well. One year when election was fast approaching, one of their sons who was contesting for governorship asked the king of the community what they were lacking then so that he will do it for them. The king after thinking told him that his palace chairs are old. The people of that community overthrew him overnight and made another person king immediately for he was not representing them well. Why this story? Continue Reading..................

20th Sunday in Ordinary Time Year A. By Tobe Eze

20th Sunday in Ordinary Time Year A.

FIRST READING
Isaiah 56:1, 6—7

SECOND READING
Romans 11:13—15, 29—32

GOSPEL
Matthew 15:21—28

THEME: TRUST AND OBEY. DO NOT REACT TO EVERYTHING.

A man went home one day with a serious wound on his face because he was responding to what the vigilant group told him. He went to a ceremony and was coming home late. When he reached the vigilant group, they asked him, where he was coming from at that time of the night. He told them and they asked him to go. When he was about to go, one of them said, odika onwere nwanyi ya na ya mekoro n' abalia (it seems like he had something with a woman this night). Instead of going, he came back to ask the man to repeat what he said. The vigilant man repeated it three times and the man went fighting. During the fight he was wounded on the face with a log of wood. Something he would have avoided. Had it been he obeyed and went home, he would have not sustained any scratch.

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