THE GOOD SIDE OF SEX.
Introduction.
In the common language of
everyone, “Everything that has advantage, has also disadvantage”. It is on this
ground that I want to say that sex on its own has also something good that
comes out of it. Let us not mind that we focus more on the wrong side of it and
not even listen to the inner voice that talks in favour of it. Our minds are
now negatively formulated about the word sex. Whenever we hear it, it will be
as we heard devil calling us. Forgetting that all of us came from it and all
that will come will also come from it. It is only the way, the time, the place
and the persons involve that make it sin, not sex itself.
Everything we do on this earth has its own time. Even the Bible
recorded it. There is time for everything,
a time to be born and a time to die, a
time to plant and a time to uproot, a time to kill and
a time to heal, a time to tear down and a time to
build, a time to weep and a time to laugh, a time to mourn and a time to dance, a time
to scatter stones and a time to gather them, a time to
embrace and a time to refrain from embracing, a time to
search and a time to give up, a time to keep and a time
to throw away, a
time to tear and a time to mend, a time to be silent
and a time to speak, a time to love and a time to hate,
a time for war and a time for peace. And sex is not an exception. Come and think of it, if a man waits
till marriage before having sex, is it still an evil? Or if a woman does the
same? It is a matter of time.
That we fall into many problems
today is because we do not wait for the proper time. Premarital and ex-marital
sex are doing the right thing at the wrong time, wrong place and with wrong
person which in turn has changed the whole thing into wrong act. Patience is a
virtue. We rush into things that are unclear to us many times and this land us
into many problems. Looking at the percentage of divorced families these days,
greater percentage is caused by either premarital or extramarital sex. Continue Reading